Monday, June 20, 2011

DOST DOST NA RAHA

DOST DOST NA RAHA
Always be careful with friends, especially when a bachelor friends helping to get a girl friend. Another big comedy place is social networking sites. We all spends time on social sites to get attention, we put useless link, photos and comments be highlighted. Though most of frustrated and bachelors are there to try their luck. What we couldn’t do in school, college, may be here. Now more than 80% of computer professional who all have access, spends more time on social site rather than with friends and family. I too have habit to spend good amount of time on facebook. Hope you all can understand why?

Chapter-1
Usual habit, being on-line on facebook minimum 12PM, reading comments, making comments and may be searching friend’s friends. However most of time I used to get, same old folks to talk. Same story everyday market, technology, salary, company …. Ohh GOD. Meaningless time but it keeps your hope alive, as we all believes, “Every DOG has a Day”, wait for turn. A month ago, life gets some twist, I was thinking, Thank GOD, my turn came, but it was dream, what ended with this story.

Chapter-2
It was night 11 PM, I was busy with some search on facebook, when I saw Vicky’s ping, He is one of good friend of mine, though he is master in field where am student. He asked me; hey man what are you doing on Facebook this time? What to answer? After 10 minutes of useless speech he asked me to send friend request to one of his friend, names Shalini, He told me about her, she is good and serious girl; you can have good time with her on chat. I asked him, Boss if she is good why, she will accept my request? He told as I am mutual friend she will be. Ok good what’s great to request, I did same. As he told me it will be approve by tomorrow morning as it’s to late today. GOD knows how many time I checked my facebook next day. In night I asked him what man, you told will be done, but not yet? He asked me to wait for tomorrow it will be. Ok Man, no option one more day to wait.

Chapter-3
Next day it was approved, Wow good day for me, but she was offline. Vicky pinged me in day and told me her schedules, she come online by 9:30 PM and will online up to 11:30 PM. So ping her in between, good luck. I was little curious and exited as well, how to manage all, it was 9:30 PM, all set but she came only by 10 PM, I only know what calls 30 minutes. It was all new for me, when I ping her Shalini replies immediately in so respect. We started with hello-Hi then each other’s interest, suddenly she told me, she is going off, catch me tomorrow. It was the entry in new world for me, a Great feeling.

Chapter-4
Next day she came on time, we get bit closer and exploring likes-dislikes and all. She told me, she is planning for marries looking for perfect match. I asked what you really look in Man, she told me like all other stupid girls, caring, respecting, honest and one more things He must take me foreign once. I thought my love story will be end before starting, so started bluffing, I suggested her, then look for an IT profession, because they can have on-site easily, so if he is married will take you as well. She asked lot about IT life and exposure and suddenly, she asked me you too in IT right? Good, she got the point what I meant. Yes I am, from IT. She asked about company, salary and working hours. I realized, though she is smarter than need but good to be in her friend list, least I can have good time on facebook. Time was going good but you never know when it will change.

Chapter-5
It was a week of chatting to Shalini, she seems interested in me, and suddenly the Vicky called me asked about her. I thanked his, and told him the story; He told me She is so smart will never give her number. It was challenge between us, I used my psychology, I asked her no. in night chat, she started making excuses, I told her Madam, why are you so scared, if I trouble you, you can complain, in case of misuse you can change that. I told her how can we talk on serious issues like marries on chat, if we don’t have trust. She has given her no., I told her I will call only when you asked me, she pinged and asked to call right now. Though I have no experience how to talk with girls but we went for an hours. I informed same to Vicky, as I won the challenge.

Chapter-6
I was quite happy talking her, even the way she used to respond was quite good. She told me one day, she wants to tell to her father about me, I was bit scaring for me. So, I told her, don’t be in hurry, as you asked me come to you to meet. I tuned the topic and asked her have you even been dated, for me it’s first time so, am bit exited. She told she had a boy friend but now she is alone. She was insisting me to tell about my girl friend, I was honest here, as I have nothing to share, I told her; you are the first, if it works further. GOD knows why girls are never accepting that fact, I had no past. She became open to me, we started doing exiting chat. Good time for me. One day she saw my picture on facebook and told me, you are looking great, but I love clean saved man. I was in good mood, and told her may be the issue comes only when smooching come in picture. She sends me smile sign and went off. That night I saw I am out of her friend list. Though it was sad, but I though may be she need someone who is serious in marries and off course I am not.

Chapter-7
After few days, I was off for 2 weeks in facebook, when I came back, Vicky told me, hey do you know Shalini was scolding you. I asked him, why so Man. His answer was bit confusing to me. Recently I was at his place; in excitement he shows me the chat history, where she had given all good comments to me. I was became center of fun. Every one stared pulling my leg, same question, what you did man, why she was scolding you. I was seriously started reading the complete conversation and notice even she withdraw her friendship from Vicky as well. The real agenda within all that was so horrible.

Chapter-8
When I read, all conversation, it was amazing. I was surprise to see how talented Vicky is poetry. Actually, as soon as he gets to know, I have her no. He became restless. Same night he told her, for others you give full access, why not to me. She was confused, asked him to be clear. Vicky told her how come you give your cell no to others. She told him, whom have I given my no.? Vicky, how come you forget, that, don’t you share your cell no. to Pandey. She told him who is Pandey? Vicky was describing me, all my details even he told with whom you planned for dating that Pandey. She must be angry as it was between us, how come Vicky knows that? She told you are talking about muchchhad (mustache), dirty man. She admit yes I share to him, as I feel he is nice Man. Vicky told her, leave him Shalini, just remember me, Don’t miss pearl for stone. I do have your number; I will not call you till you will give your number yourself. What a dialogue man, I read in such way that everyone can understand what the matter was. Another big dialogue, Shalini, Usually we never respect the true love and trust on cheater, later in life we have to feel sorry once we miss the real one. She was big boss, she told him, Hey Vicky call me now, I am permitting you, you have my no. so, Please call me, I have no issue. His all dialogue went off as I never share her number to him. At end she has given the big responsibility to Vicky, Please search a nice groom for me, what a brother should do. Vicky must be frustrated and broke up. So finally neither he nor me had Shalini in list.

Chapter-9
On public demand I renamed his MOTILAL (Pearl Man). MOTILAL had great plan but somehow if didn’t work. He thought if I get her will share with him, or if I refused her or may be once break-up, he can be close. I was in trap. Vicky knew me, I will never be serious so soon he will have exposure, but he forgets I will not let her go away so soon. It was time of dialogue, so I told him, what man you would have told me, for friendship may have sacrifice thousands of girls, why you did so for Shalini kind of, because am sure, I can’t get one then how come leave them. Now the game turn, his leg pulling stated. I was great lesson for me. She came to for my foreign trip and Vicky had another plan, so was the man who was doing his best for nothing. So guys never trust, bachelor friends in case of girls.

Summary:
Though it was a trap, but I really thank Vicky, least two weeks I had good chat and call with Shalini. Hope even she had good time. Incidence makes few things changes, like Vicky became MOTILAL, Shalini is out of scope to both of us, and you all got new story. So just remember love is not a transferable entity, get help to do friendship not be boy friend or girl friend.
Have good time guys but be careful always.

Thanks:
Dewendra K Pandey